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Life advice? Yes, Please.

Figuring your life out is difficult in your 20s. Especially if the whole world is telling you that everything has to be decided and you need to be successful by the time you turn 30. It’s a lot of stress for one person to handle and that fear can keep you from making any decisions at all out of fear of getting it wrong. At this time in life, you don’t need judgment, you need advice.

Enter Amy Poehler. Throughout all of the stress and panic, I have found solace in her amazing book, Yes Please

It’s not just a comedic storytelling of the joys and mishaps of her life; it’s a self-help book full of advice for those who don’t understand their life.  She speaks about inequality in the workplace, surviving being broke, losing friends and standing up for yourself. It makes you think, it brings you down and it lifts you back up again and again. (It also doesn’t hurt that there’s an entire chapter dedicated to “Parks and Recreation,” which, as it happens, is a phenomenal work of art and my favorite television show.)

Between the anecdotes about SNL and the deep dives into her personal life, she gives the most amazing advice to those like me who are trying to figure stuff out. From changing majors to choosing internships, college can be a web of confusion. Yes Please’s words helps to guide you through it.

Take, for example, this quote about work:

“You have to care about your work but not about the result. You have to care about how good you are and how good you feel, but not about how good people think you are or how good people think you look.”

That is solid advice: Find something you love. Work hard at it. Do it for yourself and not others.

The entirety of Yes Please is a call-to-action to better yourself. Amy (we’re on a first-name basis now) has internalized the mistakes she’s made and learned from them, and all she wants to accomplish with her book is to show others that it’s fine to make a million mistakes as long as you grow and learn from them. 

This book, in addition to the other strides she’s made for equality and justice, like her Smart Girls initiative, her support of Hillary Clinton in 2016 and her overall support of women in general, has made her one of the most inspirational women alive today. I hope her advice provides as much clarity for you as it did for me.

Like Prince said, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called life. To that end, I’ll leave you with another nugget of wisdom from Amy to guide you through any and all of the things you’re embarking on in 2018:

“Change is the only constant. Your ability to navigate and tolerate change and its painful uncomfortableness directly correlates to your happiness and general well-being.” 

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